Which is better?

To miss someone and not see him, virtually and in real life, no communications, no nothing?

OR

To see the person online, chatted, yet knowing the chat is not like before, like we have become strangers?

心中有一種刺刺的感覺。
有一種難以形容的失落。
想著那個人卻無法說出口。
是自己太窩囊，還是怕受傷？
我也不清楚了。。。