Last night I was having a beer by the river with Di. I mean we wanted to do the get free drinks for Ladies' night thing.. but it got irritating when it's difficult to get the drinks and girls keep cutting into the queue and all for free drinks. So yes.. After a few drinks, I decided to call it quits and adjourn to the river to drink beer and not have to shout to have a conversation.

We were talking and stuff usually include work, people, love, lack of love life, sex etc etc. As we were talking about Di's work, I was telling her that maybe her next job she should go for something closer to a personal assistant. Guess what happened this morning? Her recruitment agency called her offering her a contract for the post of Lead Secretary. I guess.. I was close enough no? So that was a funny moment. Just when I told Si-mi like two years ago that she might not spend christmas alone afterall and hold and behold, she got a date and they have been together since. I was telling Di i should go and 摆攤 and tell fortunes. hahahaha.. but sometimes it's merely observing and knowing cycles do not change all that much. I told Di to go for it because it will be a break in her employment cycle. I told her it would be a good continuity to her current stability. She has gone through the "after 6 months, I would be without a job for another few months" cycle once too many times and if she doesn't take it into her own hands to change things, things might never change. At the moment, whatever reasons she had put forth, to me, are non-consequential because changing the overall is more important than small details like whether it's in the same company, who she would be working with, etc. Oh well.. ultimately it's going to be her choice. *shrug* I can only say that much and honestly sometimes I do think that she does not take my advice readily. She would ask a couple of people and in the end she would make the decision because someone else said the same thing I did. Sigh. nvm. life goes on.